Tag: Kayla

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Kayla’s First Days

Apparently so, because everyone wants to know our little daughters name. I was of the opinion that I wanted to meet her before giving her a name. If she came out screaming and insufferable, a name like “peace” obviously wouldn’t be a great fit. No, that name wasn’t a consideration, but you get the point.

For months now Jen has wanted to have a name picked out for each gender, just in case. She had a list of boys and girl names all ready to go. I have maintained that I’d rather not name our baby until after meeting him/her. Today, the lady from records came and visited us to fill out the birth certificate. We still hadn’t settled on a name. We had also verfied that you don’t need to pick out a name and have an “unnamed” birth certificate issued. You simply file a $40 form to change the name at any later date. The only catch is that we’d have to apply for her social security number after choosing her name. No big deal.

Ironically, after knowing how easy it would be to not name her, Jen had really warmed up to the idea of taking some more time to consider a name that was “most” fitting for her. However, there is absolutely no harm (and no extra cost) to give her a name for the birth certificate, and then simply change it later. We had “almost” decided on Kayla and unable to settle on a full name, minutes before our official discharge, I made an executive decision.

Our 6lb bundle of cuddles and snuggles is named Kayla Marie Simerson. If mommy decides that there another name she’d prefer more, we’ll just change it later. However, we are both growing quite fond of the name.

We got exactly what we prayed for, a healthy mommy and baby. Little Miss Junior arrived at 3:46PM, weighting in at 6 lbs and measuring 19 inches. We couldn’t be any more pleased with the outcome.

There are no words to describe what it’s like to bring a new little one in to the world. It’s surreal, magical, and altogether wonderful. In one instant, my entire world view changed. While driving back with dinner, I passed the park where three young girls (13-14 years) were hanging out. I thought “I wonder what kind of influence those girls will be on my daughter.” Yesterday, I just saw three kids.

I couldn’t wait to get back to the hospital. I cannot explain why after being gone for just 20 minutes, I was pulled so strongly just to be back here with my two girls. Something new and powerful awoke within me, and I just wanted to be back here.

1:22PM There’s no way to know these things, but I think the waiting game is drawing closer to conclusion. Contractions are now lasting longer and are more intense. I expect the pushing to begin fairly soon.

10:03AM Since we aren’t “supposed” to use our cell phones in the hospital, we won’t be “answering” incoming calls reliably. I will continue to keep this page updated as we progress. Current we’re 100% effaced, and the cervix is dilated to 4-5cm. That’s progress, but the epidural slowed things down a bit, which is a very normal occurence.

3:45AM. Nap time for papa is over. Serious contractions have started and firm lower back massage is the order du jour. We’re up to 4 cm and contractions are regular so things are progressing well. The IV has been started and the epidural is on order.

1:18AM – All is quiet in the hospital room. We’ve checked in, so we’ll be here for the duration. They’ve monitored both mommy and Junior and all is well. The contractions are still mild to moderate, but we’re 80% effaced, so we’re progressing well. Jen’s in the bathtub, soaking. I’m preparing to take a nap.

9:30PM Contractions are down to seven-eight minutes each. Cookies for the nurses are in the oven. When the cookies are done, we hit the road and head up to the hospital.

On Thursday’s exam, Jen was already dialated 2cm. That’s a very good sign, meaning her body is getting prepared for a healthy natural pregnancy. Her water just broke (7:30PM). It looks like things are progressing towards a slightly early delivery. We just packed up our hospital bags and now Jen’s trying to rest up for the big event.

Stay turned, more details to follow.